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		<title>Upgrading my Droid Eris to Android 2.1</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20101403/upgrading-my-droid-eris-to-android-2-1/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 06:28:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[android]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[A little over a month ago, I finally caught up with every other techie in the area and traded in my reliable but feature-light cellphone for a smartphone &#8212; specifically, the Droid Eris. I knew that the phone was still on an older version of the Android OS, but since 2.1 was already announced to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A little over a month ago, I finally caught up with every other techie in the area and traded in my reliable but feature-light cellphone for a smartphone &#8212; specifically, the Droid Eris. I knew that the phone was still on an older version of the Android OS, but since 2.1 was already announced to be coming in Spring 2010, it didn&#8217;t seem like such a big deal.</p>
<p>This weekend, Google Contacts sync somehow managed to delete most of my contacts, so I decided that I might as well try my hand at upgrading my phone to the <a href="http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=641588">leaked Android 2.1 OS</a>. (Yes, I backed up everything else. No, I did not get manage to get my contacts back automatically. Yes, I&#8217;ll be switching back to the OTA update once it&#8217;s available.) While everything seems to be working pretty smoothly now, as someone who&#8217;s not a hardcore Android developer, I thought that the original <a href="http://forum.xda-developers.com/showpost.php?p=5783602&#038;postcount=99">instructions</a> could use a bit more detail (it took a few tries before I got it working), so here&#8217;s my version (which may only be relevant for anywhere from a day to a week, as Verizon&#8217;s supposed to officially roll out 2.1 anytime now):</p>
<ol>
<li>Download the patched 2.1 ROM</li>
<li>Make sure the zip file is: intact (not unzipped), named PB00IMG.zip exactly, and in the SD card root (mine originally went into the SD card&#8217;s downloads folder, but I was able to move it, thanks to the <a href="http://download.cnet.com/Astro-File-Manager-for-Android/3000-2248_4-75016122.html">ASTRO File Manager</a> app I had)</li>
<li>Turn off your phone (again: make sure you have things backed up. You can do this in a variety of ways; I used the free version of MyBackup, since the Pro version isn&#8217;t yet available in the newer Apps Market)</li>
<li>Press and hold the Power and Call buttons down at the same time</li>
<li>A menu will appear on your screen with the default option of FLASHBOOT. You should &#8220;scroll&#8221; (with the Volumn Down button) to select HBOOT instead. If you see messages about &#8220;No image!&#8221; (this caused me a bit of panic initially), but still have a blue status bar loading upwards on the right of the screen, you&#8217;re fine.</li>
<li>The phone will reboot a few times. Just press the trackball to keep selecting HBOOT initially and let it finish.</li>
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<p>I have to say that my phone feels a lot faster and smoother after the upgrade, and I&#8217;m even happier with the Eris now. Plus, the boyfriend and I have been having way too much fun testing out <a href="http://www.google.com/mobile/goggles">Google Goggles</a> on things all around the apartment.</p>
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		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20102802/lovebird/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 07:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[indie rock]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[lovebird]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[[See post for audio]
Lovebird &#8211; I Will
At least every few months, I go on a hunt for new music and artists. I can&#8217;t quite remember when I developed this habit or how I discovered Lovebird, but I stumbled across the band towards the end of last year, and was really surprised at how unknown they [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="quick-link">[See post for audio]<br />
<small><strong>Lovebird &#8211; I Will</strong></small></p>
<p>At least every few months, I go on a hunt for new music and artists. I can&#8217;t quite remember when I developed this habit or how I discovered <a href="http://lovebirdusa.com">Lovebird</a>, but I stumbled across the band towards the end of last year, and was really surprised at how unknown they are. Lovebird&#8217;s indie rock has a beautifully soothing sound that transitions smoothly from mood to mood on the (self-titled) debut album, and I&#8217;ve been especially listening to them en route to work in the mornings.</p>
<ul>
<li>Listen if you like: Eisley, Sixpence None the Richer, The Cranberries</li>
<li>Album available via: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002TNDR7Y/ref=mu_dm_alb_dp?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1261275815&#038;sr=1-1">Amazon</a>, <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/lovebird/id336730938">iTunes</a></li>
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		<title>New roommate</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20092812/new-roommate/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 22:21:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I suppose now that I&#8217;ve broken the news to my mother, I can tell the internets (or at least mention on my sad, neglected blog) that I&#8217;ve started officially LIVING IN SIN. With my boyfriend. And yes, we&#8217;ve brought the Quixy along.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I suppose now that I&#8217;ve broken the news to my mother, I can tell the internets (or at least mention on my sad, neglected blog) that I&#8217;ve started <em>officially</em> LIVING IN SIN. With my boyfriend. And yes, we&#8217;ve brought the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elea/3740474820">Quixy</a> along.</p>
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		<title>Questions</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20092312/questions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 01:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes there are drawbacks to having friends who are ambitious, smart, and talented. Sometimes I&#8217;m afraid that for all the hard work and effort in the world, I may never end up being as accomplished. Sometimes I&#8217;m also afraid that I don&#8217;t have what it takes, because I burn out in between and my health [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes there are drawbacks to having friends who are ambitious, smart, and talented. Sometimes I&#8217;m afraid that for all the hard work and effort in the world, I may never end up being as accomplished. Sometimes I&#8217;m also afraid that I don&#8217;t have what it takes, because I burn out in between and my health continues to be up and down, and life doesn&#8217;t always work out the way you plan or want.</p>
<p>As someone who wasn&#8217;t born in the United States, a lot of the decisions I&#8217;ve had to make have been weighted heavily by the legal implications and the financial burden any choice would entail. Amongst all my worries, I also want to know: when can I really just be free to pursue what I want? And in the end, how much am I sure of what I want and how much am I willing to do or give up to get it?</p>
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		<title>Balance</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20090911/balance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:14:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do people balance the desire to be open with the need to be discreet? Most of the time I like my name, but increasingly, I hesitate before posting anything because there are certain people who abuse the vastness of the web. It&#8217;s easy to say that you should just ignore it all, but harder [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do people balance the desire to be open with the need to be discreet? Most of the time I like my name, but increasingly, I hesitate before posting anything because there are certain people who <a href="http://in-essence.org/elea/20091907/cornered/">abuse</a> the vastness of the web. It&#8217;s easy to say that you should just ignore it all, but harder to do; there are general topics that probably ought not to be discussed publicly (i.e. work, visa issues, and now family, since all my relatives are familiar with Google by this point) or things that I just feel awkward broaching online (particularly: love life). Since I can&#8217;t figure out a happy medium yet, I just find myself remaining silently frustrated with all the things I can&#8217;t say.</p>
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		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20092810/317/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:09:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Stumbled across this beautiful series of typography-inspired photographs and am absolutely in love.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quick-link">Stumbled across this <a href="http://lajosmajor.com/bg_on/photo_lubitel.html">beautiful series</a> of typography-inspired photographs and am absolutely in love.</p>
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		<title>A little note to the driver with road rage this morning</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20090409/a-little-note-to-the-driver-with-road-rage-this-morning/</link>
		<comments>http://in-essence.org/elea/20090409/a-little-note-to-the-driver-with-road-rage-this-morning/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 17:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Angry Driver,
I understand you&#8217;re not a Morning Person, but perhaps you should get in your early dose of hugs or something (though maybe not  caffeine, judging by the way you were about to plow down that poor crossing guard as he was trying to help the young girl cross the street) so that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Angry Driver,</p>
<p>I understand you&#8217;re not a Morning Person, but perhaps you should get in your early dose of hugs or something (though maybe <em>not </em> caffeine, judging by the way you were about to plow down that poor crossing guard as he was trying to help the young girl cross the street) so that you can resist the urge to kill the rest of us. Alternatively, trying public transportation or punching bags might also be a good idea. It would be much appreciated. <3</p>
<p>Sincerely,<br />
Concerned Fellow Autoist</p>
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		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20093008/309/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 00:58:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love seeing how other people approach wireframes and design sketches, so getting a peek at the different styles of the 37signals design team is pretty cool.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="quick-link">I love seeing how other people approach wireframes and design sketches, so getting a peek at the <a href="http://37signals.com/svn/posts/1880-the-different-sketch-styles-of-the-designers-at-37signals#extended">different styles of the 37signals design team</a> is pretty cool.</p>
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		<title>Cornered</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20091907/cornered/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 00:18:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[onlineharrassment]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the longest time, I have been struggling with whether or not to post this, because the last thing I want to do with an obsessive online stalker is to give him more attention, but it&#8217;s really gone on for far too long and I refuse to be a passive victim. Since February of this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the longest time, I have been struggling with whether or not to post this, because the last thing I want to do with an obsessive online stalker is to give him more attention, but it&#8217;s really gone on for far too long and I refuse to be a passive victim. Since February of this year, someone going by Gregory Leroy and/or Weaver who supposedly resides in Texas has been harassing me (and other females too, it seems) online and the local cyber unit of the police along with his web host have been of no help. His latest actions involve buying the domain of my first name and last name (eleachang.com) and optimizing it so to have it take over my <a href="http://in-essence.org/_img/ec_googlesearch.gif">Google search results</a>.</p>
<p>To start from the beginning, Gregory apparently found me via the footer credits for <a href="http://www.women2.org">Women 2.0</a>, a nonprofit organization that I used to do web maintenance work for, and for some reason became fixated. I couldn&#8217;t make heads or tails of his nonsensical first email message (included at the end of the post) and ignored it, but he persisted by continually sending me messages through email in addition to social networking sites, like <a href="http://linkedin.com">LinkedIn</a> and then  <a href="http://twitter.com">Twitter</a>, though he clearly <a href="http://in-essence.org/_img/gl_twitter.jpg" title="Warning: this is a 4MB screenshot">realized at some point that I blocked him</a> (which also kept me from noticing all the tweets he was trying to send my way for awhile) and eventually ended up deleting the majority of his posts.</p>
<p>All the while, I had been hoping that he would simply move on, since he seemed more mentally unbalanced than malicious, but once he set up the domain under my name, the comments he included in the source code (along with the whole site itself) were unnerving:</p>
<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m not going to leave this [source] up! We must never let in-essence.org be anything less than the essence of in-essence.org. That means that we must 404 eleachang.com so nobody else can 200 it! Does that make any sense? (Well, we can also 403 it and 302 a list of hip and useful subdomains)</p>
<p>And since we can put HTML in our Forbidden 403&#8230;<br />
not yet Elea, its unforbidden 4now &#8212; I get to nudge you at least once <img src='http://in-essence.org/elea/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>- elea</p>
<p>PLEASE REMEMBER, I&#8217;M AN ARTIST AND I&#8217;M SENSITIVE</p>
<p>And also remember, I play around with all types of people and or.ganizations
</p></blockquote>
<p>Finally, after Gregory sent along a screenshot of eleachang.com rising in my Google search results, I broke my silence and responded.</p>
<blockquote><p>
Gregory,</p>
<p>I am not sure who you are or why you keep sending me messages through various mediums. I am even more unsure as to why you&#8217;ve bought the domain of my name. When I blocked you on Twitter, it should have been clear that I would rather not correspond with you.</p>
<p>Whatever your aim is with these actions, please stop. I will not respond to future correspondences, but I will be pursuing further legal action as necessary.</p>
<p>Elea
</p></blockquote>
<p>This seemed to get through to him:</p>
<blockquote><p>
Elea I&#8217;m very sorry for bothering you and I promise this is my last message to you. Please understand that I never wanted you to feel uncomfortable and I am sorry about taking your domain.  I will send you the transfer code soon, if you would like. I just wanted to be your friend from Austin and I realize I did a poor job of introducing myself. Don&#8217;t hate me for being a weirdo.</p>
<p>Weaver
</p></blockquote>
<p>However, the domain is still up right now, he still comes to comment on my blog posts, and he continued working on the <acronym title="Search Engine Optimization">SEO</acronym> of eleachang.com to get it to become the top result under my name. I shouldn&#8217;t be surprised though, as he seems also to be a pathological liar, judging by the way he liked to make up stories about me. So now I&#8217;m exposing his actions and asking you all for suggestions regarding what my next steps should be. Online stalking may still be a murky area legally, but I should not have to feel powerless.</p>
<p><span id="more-300"></span><br />
First email correspondence:</p>
<blockquote><p>
http://www.google.com/search?q=essence-of.org<br />
http://or.ganization.org</p>
<p>INVENTIONS (-of elea)</p>
<p>sidetext ? itty bit of text on the side &#8212; enough to read on the edge</p>
<p>gradient pink background in a new direction? DIAGONAL !!!!!! Ok thats what blew me away and made me do this</p>
<p>the best her had the worst link. it was littlest and 256 kb of random return<br />
the link her had the link in<br />
the home page of the web developer with the wordpress (i was in the middle of my mu-press pro never public distro, after all I am unpress.wordpress.com lol)</p>
<p>and the women2 page always looks good even in tiny text as RSS 2.0 in Mail.app (which is how I get it)</p>
<p>http://anme.gif.png.url-of.com/anme.jpg</p>
<p>my anime animated jpg gif.png x-generic imagae</p>
<p>http://or.ganization.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/lol.m4a</p>
<p>so you will never be forgotten in the noetic age</p>
<p>(i am so scared of twitter after angie said it was like dodgeball on her oldest twitter)</p>
<p>&#8211; weaver</p>
<p>p.s.<br />
essence-of.* is for you.  check out the irony (john steward mill).  Standford Encyclopedia of Philosophy<br />
I owe Stanford so much love.  If I ever went to a w2.0, I would want to +1 with Ms. Protege after all they did while I was writing SNOMED ontology software!</p>
<p>Thanks for being </p>
<p>p.p.s.<br />
If you made custom stationary&#8230; with a business plan !!!</p>
<p>p.p.p.s<br />
Tell me if anything I post should be unposted &#8212; some of my jokes are hard to get, but the Women 2.0 are at the edge and so important for me to follow. (sex toy startup was the best in branding and koollage is best in breading)*<br />
*in my opinion.</p>
<p>http://gregoryleroy.com<br />
http://www.linkedin.com/in/xhtml</p>
<p>(i was suppose to make this email perfect but I&#8217;m in the middle of interviewing with frog design and I have to tell you first before they see or.ganization.org. So, don&#8217;t save this &#8212; i&#8217;m going to edit it later. version 1.0
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		<title>Terrible WordPress Pickup Lines (WordCamp 2009)</title>
		<link>http://in-essence.org/elea/20093005/terrible-wordpress-pickup-lines/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 23:02:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Elea</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because Matt joked earlier that the (now annual) WordCamp Genius Bar would be available for dating advice throughout the day, I decided to run with the idea and compile a list of terrible potential WordPress pickup lines while helping to man the stations. The first two below are mine, while the rest can be attributed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because <a href="http://ma.tt">Matt</a> joked earlier that the (now annual) <a href="http://2009.sf.wordcamp.org/">WordCamp</a> <a href="http://foolswisdom.com/geniuses-for-wordcamp-sf-bar/">Genius Bar</a> would be available for dating advice throughout the day, I decided to run with the idea and compile a list of terrible potential WordPress pickup lines while helping to man the stations. The first two below are mine, while the rest can be attributed to my fellow (read: ACTUAL) geniuses.</p>
<ul>
<li>Would you like me to extend your WordPress?</li>
<li>Do you want me to show you my plugins?</li>
<li>Help me extend my platform.</li>
<li>I&#8217;d like to fiddle with your widgets.</li>
<li>May I commit to your repository?</li>
<li>Is that a widget in your sidebar or are you just pleased to see me?</li>
<li>Wanna click my turbo button?</li>
<li>Can I Interest you in a QuickPress?</li>
<li><code>do_action('you');</code></li>
<li>How about you and me make a child theme?</li>
<li>If I pinged you, would you ping me back?</li>
<li>Let me help you open your source.</li>
</ul>
<p>Feel free to chime in and comment with your own!</p>
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